Many women have their go-to oral sex moves that they know will work every. But why keep all of that great intel to themselves? We asked around to get real women's best tips for amazing oral. The goal: To make it great for you and pretty damn mind-blowing for him.
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Instead of engaging in a spelling bee during oral sex, take some advice from me — a seasoned lesbian with over two decades of experience both receiving and giving oral sex. Communication during oral sex is about more than just moans and heavy breathing though that counts, too! You want to maximize your partner's sexual pleasure, and that means communicating with her before, during, and even after the act. Where does she enjoy being touched? Which motion feels good for her? By keeping the communication open, having no assumptions and learning to figure out what pleases each person, you should be able to give incredible head. Consensual experimentation with different positions , speeds and techniques is a great way to find out what will leave her in ecstasy. Great music never starts off with the crescendo — it always builds up. Female orgasms are similar. Your partner will get more out of it — including a better orgasm — if you start slowly and get blood flowing to her clitoris by giving the rest of her body some attention.
We asked sex educators and sex therapists to share their best advice on how to make it a very satisfying experience for all involved. Note: Just remember these are general tips. Focus on a slow buildup maybe start with a body massage or a make-out session , then pay special attention to the clitoris, which, for many women, must be stimulated in order for them to have an orgasm.
Penis-in-vagina sex is not the be-all-end-all of sex. Oral sex can be just as pleasurable — if not more so — than penetrative sex. You know whose genital juice tastes like cookies and cream? We all have a taste down there.